AFFLICTION

The outlook of an individual reflects on what's in the core of his heart and soul.The person may try to portray otherwise, yet the genuine character will eventually come out. I'm simply referring to my personal observation,not trying to act as a psychologist, nor an expert on human behavior. But I believe any speculator like me could attest to that.You could easily detect a pathetic personality, even in an ordinary sharing of opinions and views.An ideal example of this is,dealing on topics of success,instead of giving positive reaction on the specific subject matter, the person has always negative comments to argue with.During light situations you are in, he always has a way to inject complicated footing thus making the whole scenario melancholy.As I've said, when anger or hatred wraps-up your spirit, you tend to shun away from being productive, instead you drown yourself to self pity & most likely turn to be abortive.
People with behavior as this are also characterized as cynical.Meaning, they are always expecting bad outcomes, instead of being hopeful.It is useless to argue with this type of people or else before you know it you might turn out to be just like one of them.One thing that's alarming to deal with such,are their expertise on manipulating unsteady and weak personality.
I hate to appraise such kind of person,though to encounter behaviors as this are often times annoying and usually provoking.But as I contemplate, I believe, that maybe they are just in need of compassion and understanding for they didn't choose to be like this.I guess it's no easy to be in their shoe, I feel to be in a state of mental torture is no wieldy. Given the chance, I think they also might turn out to be sympathetic and lovable.Maybe all they need is affection and TLC. Anyway there's always a chance to undergo an innovation process, if we want to.Only we must first learn to accept our affliction so we can move on for the better if not for the best.
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL and LET'S ALL LOOK FORWARD TO A TRANQUIL 2010!